Oh… it’s good to see there are other sane people… 28 May 2007
Posted by marisacat in Abortion Rights, Sex / Reproductive Health.trackback
The Abortion Issue: Who Decides? (5 Letters) Published: May 28, 2007
*** The letters were in response to this NYT article ***
To the Editor:
Re “Abortion Foes See Validation for New Tactic” (front page, May 22):
Finally there is something for women on the opposite sides of the abortion question to agree on: that it is insulting and degrading to women, and a dangerous erosion of their rights, to assume that women cannot understand the consequences of their actions.
As a judge, I am extremely disheartened that our Supreme Court would adopt the patronizing and backward language in the Gonzales case, which upheld the Partial-Birth Abortion Ban Act.
Admittedly with no reliable data to support it, the majority court speculated that doctors misinform their patients of the details of the procedure to spare their feelings, leading the women to later regret their choice and suffer “severe depression and loss of esteem.” This attitude harkens back to the old vision of women as helpless, delicate flowers who must be protected from themselves.
Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg put it succinctly in her dissent: “This way of thinking reflects ancient notions about women’s place in the family and under the Constitution — ideas that have long since been discredited.”
My friends may be more liberal than I on the abortion question, but we stand together on the question of whether women are capable of knowing their own minds.
Elizabeth Doyle
Hollidaysburg, Pa., May 22, 2007
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To the Editor:
I had an abortion when I was 21 years old. I am now 48, and not once have I regretted my choice.
Every choice we make contributes to our present reality. Mine includes two beautiful girls, a wonderful husband and a life rich with art, community service and lots of joy.
I cannot imagine what path my life would have taken had I carried my first pregnancy to term. I do know that it would have led to somewhere very different.
Perhaps groups like the Justice Foundation, which has collected stories from women who see themselves as victims of abortion, should add stories from people like me. I am sure we are in the majority.
Jessica Sporn
Glen Ridge, N.J., May 22, 2007
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To the Editor:
Your article about the strategy of anti-abortion activists reveals their new claim that by pushing for mandatory counseling about abortion’s alleged psychological and physical risks, they’re working in the interests of women.
The Supreme Court narrowly endorsed that claim when it upheld the Partial-Birth Abortion Ban Act, substituting political propaganda for medical science.
But meticulous research shows that there is no causal relationship between abortions and mental illnesses. Women’s mental health is jeopardized when laws require doctors to mislead them and is best served when women make their own decisions. That’s why the American Psychiatric Association stands in favor of women’s access to reproductive health care.
Anti-abortion activists have even made up a mental disease: “abortion trauma syndrome.” Recently I told Congress that the association recognizes no such disorder.
Doctors take an oath to work in the best interest of patients. Anti-choice activists merely claim that mantle as their tactic du jour.
Nada L. Stotland, M.D.
Chicago, May 22, 2007
The writer is president-elect of the American Psychiatric Association.
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To the Editor:
It is normal for people to feel depressed about life’s difficult events, including divorce, moving to a new city, job change, birth of a first child and, yes, abortion. Uncomfortable feelings are not the province solely of women who have had an abortion.
These feelings are an expected and healthy expression of a loss — just as a new puppy, child’s refrigerator drawing or marriage might elicit the normal emotions of joy.
Complex and varying emotions are part of being human. To be protected from them is to be robbed of the richness of an authentic life.
After writing a book on the emotional recovery from abortion, my co-author and I have found, from thousands of letters and e-mail messages over 10 years, that very few women feel serious distress after an abortion.
Most often they tell us that if they do feel regret, it is because they had to go through such a tough decision.
Candace De Puy
Los Angeles, May 22, 2007
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To the Editor:
As a bioethicist who supports robust informed consent throughout the health care system, I am outraged by pro-life strategists who have hijacked and misused this important concept.
The point of informed consent is to offer the consumer the best medical facts about her condition, so that she can plug those facts into her value system and her life circumstances and make the best choice for her.
If there is good evidence that a significant number of women suffer emotional distress after abortion, that is important information women should know.
They should also be informed of the physical risks of carrying a pregnancy to term, the proportion of women who suffer postpartum depression and the emotional consequences of giving a baby up for adoption.
Dena S. Davis
Cleveland, May 23, 2007
The writer is a professor at Cleveland-Marshall College of Law.
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Of course, on the other side is… … …
Love how the “sacrificial” lamb is clearly complicit… in fact, loaded with come-hither entrapment 😉
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A judges, a psychiatrist, a bioethicist, a professor, some perdition-bound soul who murdered her baby — and all women. Der Papa would not be impressed.
Mary had a little lamb, little lamb, little lamb . . . .
LOL her fleece was white as snow.
Enter Snow White… and off we go… an endless Disney Land of no abortion, no sex til marriage and so on. And no corner bar either. Mickey Mouse sure as hell never gets an erection.
when i was hunting for a new cartoon or pic of il papa i saw an Italian cartoon of two skeletons “making it”… the text suggested that would be the outcome of abstinence.
Just about… 😉
her fleece was flecked with gore, more like.
off topic, but check out this new song by Richard Thompson, “Dad’s Gonna Kill Me”
lyrics here.
re: Richardson – seems to be competing with Romney for the title of chameleon guy.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/chris-kelly/mitt-romney-owns-it_b_49348.htm
Kennedy’s “rationale” for the decision on PBA is truly stunning. Haven’t heard such blatantly sexist claptrap in a long time. Doubt I ever heard a living man say something like this — only read it and it was from the Nineteenth Century. Maybe they can disenfranchise women of the right to vote — you know we might make a mistake and regret it.
I would have switched around who needs to do the connecting, but:
Impoverished Women Need to Connect with a Reproductive Rights Movement
‘nother campaign song from the dayglos —
Watching “The F Word” on IFC. Fantastic stuff.
It is curious that the arrest of Haleh Esfandiari, the Iranian-American academic is completely out of the news.I was reading through the accounts of the Iranian & American diplomats meeting for the first time in 27 years, and only heard about Iran’s offer to train & equip the Iraqi army.
What happened? This admin. has been looking for a pretext to war with Iran for sometime. But this woman’s detention hasn’t drawn much attention.
And then after the Dems spelunk on the Iraq supplemental, after we hear that up to 200k US troops may end up in Iraq, we hear rumors of cutting troop size in half, and then other rumors of beginning withdrawal in September by Jeff Sessions.
too much sleight-of-hand, I think.
I’m about to nail up the 3,455 sign under the impeachment banner.
Cindy Sheehan has posted a GBCW at dk.
Happy Fuckin’ Memorial Day…
this is a very depressing day in a very depressing month in a more depressing year in a terribly horrifying decade. Now I read Cindy:
I haven’t had the loss she’s had, but I know the feeling of being a sucker for this system for far too long.
They broke her, and so-called “liberals” helped.
It’s gonna take a full collapse and years of horror and hardship domestically, and that breaks my heart.
Esfandiari gets mentioned out here on my local ABC affiliate news. Perhaps some of the family is here.
I also saw a headline that “other US natioansls” are being held or have been held recently… but I did not have time to read it… Think I may have seen that at IraqSLogger.
MitM — Cindy Sheehan posted one of the most honest, painful and heartfelt diaries ever. To be read and recommended.
Only the twitocracy couldn’t just let Cindy’s words stand on their own. They had to rush in and say, “Casey didn’t die in vain,” “We love you” — and on and on. Did they even read what she’d written? Are their comprehension skills that weak?
re#11 — that is heartbreaking, but I am amazed that the woman kept on for so long….
and yes, marie, their comprehension skills are that weak — I wish I had the $$ to buy the land — it is indeed beautiful…..
Anyone want to go in on it with me?
well “liberals” like their glucose drip. She wasn’t it.
No shit, Mcat, though I think they prefer to mainline it…..
I’d recommend, if I could, though I guess a link is a recommend.
She should have been front-paged whenever she posted, but it’s not a liberal/left blog, it’s a party organ, no different than burly men leaning on shopowners to vote “properly”. Kos & Ko would have been at home helping Daley dig up “voters” for Kennedy back in the day.
More senseless slaughter to come
“Only the twitocracy couldn’t just let Cindy’s words stand on their own. They had to rush in and say, “Casey didn’t die in vain,” “We love you” — and on and on. Did they even read what she’d written? Are their comprehension skills that weak?”
Marie
Some of them, yes. The rest are either lying to keep the gravy-train a’rollin’ or won’t let the blinders fall from their eyes.
Country: Wrecked. System: Broken. We are: Fucked
Kevin
hmmm just getting to the Sheehan at Dkos:
kinda says it all, doesn’t it, Mcat?
yes it does. There is no political partner nor imo even the hope of one.
The war was always going to be the great revealer of how deep the mess is…
plenty more will be planted in Opus’ field.
Who knew that kos shared so much in common w/ Alabama homeland “security”:
Funny … “educational” … anyway, interesting that the editor obviously thought that an anti-woman activist would be more sympathetic.
KL #19 – The rest are either lying to keep the gravy-train a’rollin’ or won’t let the blinders fall from their eyes.
Yup – and I couldn’t resist telling them that again:
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2007/5/28/15406/4240
though I acknowledge Cindy Sheehan’s initiation of this anti-war movement, I will not go so far as to compare her with MLK, Rosa Parks, etc. her “Good Riddance Attention Whore” exit smacks of self-pity, and I do not find it inspiring in the least. Why she chooses Memorial Day to flame out and remark upon her suffering and ostracization in some circles, seems odd and troubling, when she might have chosen to honor her son’s sacrifice in a more meaningful way.
Miss Devore — I have to diagree. She posted a thread all over a couple of days ago saying how she was no longer a democrat. Lead by Geekesque she was trashed and demeaned at Kos. So much so I nearly jumped in and posted to defend her and I dont even like her that much. I can only imagine how it went elsewhere. I find her actions completely understandable. The timing has more to do with that than the holiday I believe.
She has been used by the left then told to go SYFPH.
missdevore – I heard sadness and no self-pity. How best to honor Memorial Day and Casey with the truth? The hollowness of all this honoring the American is mind boggling to me. It’s cheap theatrics — because nobody is going to do a damn thing to save one single life today or tomorrow. And your critcism of when and what Cindy does is another example of what finally wore her out and forced her to see the truth.
I owe a lot to Marisa for steering me in the right direction in being able to see and appreciate Cindy Sheehan. She’s brave and kind.
well lots of people initiated the anti war movement. She simply had a brainstorm one night in TX with other anti war activists protesters and VFP (Greg Moses has written of the night, Colleen Rowley was there, one reason she went twice to Camp Casey, first when it was in the ditch) and went to Prairie Chapel Rd.
I don’t think anyone here has compared her to MLK nor Rosa Parks. Both of whom needed a movement to back them up. As it ws RP was the second try, the first woman deemed not the best “poster girl” as she was unmarried and pregnant.
It is all much more than the surface, imo.
As for how she deals with her son’s death, really, that is up to her.
Others took the 400K (which is retroactive – and now they want to extend it to grandparents) took foundation, grant, gift money and in some cases JOBS with the mil industrial complex. I am not blaming them, they made their choices in a nasty brutal nation.
The “other side” is making sure there is no tidal wave of the “loved ones” nor of the maimed and damaged to rise up. Otherwise you get to exhuast yourself fighting the system.
The hard right knows people just fucking wear out.
Tina Richards got so much respect from Obey. That vote last Thursday was the end for anyone hanging in the rafters hoping.
and don’t forget that Rosa’s protest was planned.
There is no institutional outlet. The “movement” groups are co-opted or frozen out. Even people who are natural allies have bought into the propaganda that there is a “proper” way to protest and be engaged.
Just how superhuman do you expect someone to be, MD? Out on a limb, w/ a bunch of people who have basically offered to be social pariahs … which is what you agree to do w/ you become a serious protester. No jobs, no credit, no student loans, no healthcare … nothing other than what your little fragile community can manage. The churches are bought out, which was where the support for MLK & Parks came from.
… and yet people like her and Vets for Peace and others put themselves out there. I don’t have the strength to do it. I quail at the price she and others have paid. Yet people criticize them for doing what everyone says they should do.
Really, just collapse … all of it. We are a truly fucked and corrupted people, and we don’t even appreciate righteous sacrifice when we see it. Lip service, yes, but only until it makes us uncomfortable.
I hope Ms. Sheehan finds a measure of peace in this vile, bloody, exploitive country.
Just catching up. Went to the elder grandherb’s dance recital on Sunday which was quite the cute production but it took me 2 bloody hours to get home via transit. Only took me about 35 minutes to get there. Damn Sunday schedule. Plus, it got very cold and started raining near the end of my wait so I crashed really early last nite – cold and exhausted.
One of the older groups of dancers danced to this tune, Voodoo by Godsmack, which I’d never heard before. I don’t keep up with all of these new-fangled groups but I did like that song. Plus, it started out with this, so I thought of the VAGs. 🙂
Anyway, from Kevin’s post in the last thread:
Visions of a crocheted sweater dancing in your head? 😉
I read Sheehan’s post and wrote about it today as well. I noticed that she used DU as an example of where the left had scorned her but she also mentioned in the comments that a kossack (it was more than one actually) told her to “shut the fuck up”. Damn flipping losers. What exactly are they doing to end this war besides supporting capitulating Democratic zombies?
And I will repeat what I said last week, the low low low red blood cell count in the vote in the senate was designed to cast off those who actually oppose the war. Unlike MoveOn and Win Without War who have been bought off… on a conitnuing basis.
The DP wants to go forward unfettered with the weepers (as I am sure they think of them, the damned liberal weepers). The Cindy Sheehans and the Tina Richards.
I caught an interview (Ring of Fire on AAR) iwth Howard on Satruday I think. After I read the transcript I double checked to make sure it was recorded after the vote. It was the 26th. He pushed Webb and Tester (called them anti-war) and he talked again of the desire to pull in evangelicals.
I think it was very calculated… even the no votes meant nothing as the link Madman posted showed. The WI group under Obey, Feingold was no, Kohl was yes. They all sold out as a group for the pork.
However they voted.
The louise Slaughter diaries, esp the smaller one at MyDd, were so revealing.
LOL
louisianagirl counsels restraint.
More laughter…
Lantos is out at the mil cemetery at the Presidio… and talking about bringing the troops home. Just heard him on KCBS News.
They just take it all and shit on it.
marisa – something’s been bugging me even though it’s not important. DH claimed to have been promoted to the dKos FP shortly after he arrived in mid-2002 (leaving the impression that he stood out from the crowd as Soto and Billmon had. I recall that Gilliard quickly became popular and while not appreciating could understand it). It just occured to me this morning that Kos had requested nominations for new guest bloggers (nothing like laying off the work to unpaid staff). You and I both declined when nominated. I don’t have any recollection of DH being some sort of favorite. And lots of those promoted have quickly flamed out over the years.
Meteor Blades is right there to do damage control and be The Left for The Democratic Party – in Marie;s diary.
… and yet people like her and Vets for Peace and others put themselves out there. I don’t have the strength to do it. I quail at the price she and others have paid. Yet people criticize them for doing what everyone says they should do.
People are going to ctriticise them no matter what they do. I’m proud of Cindy Sheehan for calling them on their snot nosed bullshit and proud of her for refusing to allow herself to be used once she fully understood how unbearably corrupt and greedy much of the available pool of ‘allies’ actually is.
As to the churches, I believe that every single ‘pro (some) life Democrat in both houses of congress voted for that piece of crap supplemental.
hmmm he is advancing his presence, iirc, by a FULL YEAR.
he arrived late winter/spring of 2003. as a thread commenter. I never saw that he was some favorite either. But of course a Clark supporter and imo (by now) known to Kos. When Kos took time off and was on the campaign plane with Howard, at Bryant Park in NYC etc, both DH and DemFromCT seemed to be in charge. They all seemed to know “Petey” and seemed to Know “Ron K., Seattle” as well. All operatives.
IMO DHinMI elevated DavidNYC as well as Kid O. After they sucked up appropriately of course.
yeah such a democratic place.
When my name was nominated I could not get the email out fast enought to Kos that I was not interested. There were problems by spring summer of 2003, a lot of it coincided iwth the Al From opinion piece on Howard.
Well Gilliard in my recollection was irritable, but he did post some interesting stuff on the war.
I remember Billmon’s very first stint as weekend blogger. A piece on Korea. It fell a bit flat and iirc he was a little hurt.
Wht a joint.
Revisionist, I did look at Cindy’s previous comments at dk before this diary, as I wondered if there was something that had incited this, but did not stumble across the incidents with geekesque–someone who lately seems to be clubbing lots of people at dk, while also beating the stick with the dems drum.
yes, I can look at it as a matter of Cindy, sincerely, and without a lot of support, venturing in and getting overwhelmed. yes, I saw, how early on, every diary that she posted at dk, shot to the top of the list, and there was no end to praises for her.
It is not her fault that this society operates on a celebrity roller-coaster where one can be canonized by some and cannibalized by others. but I do think she has been experiencing those vicissitudes for awhile, and yes, she does need rest and recovery. I’m just saying I
think she exhibits a kind of personal collapse, where if people truly cared, would have counseled her out of the public eye for her own good.
Sorry Mitm, but the fact that the Rosa Parks protest and other civil rights events may have been planned does not take away from the centuries that black Americans have had to endure an amalgam of suffering and humiliation. The fact that the movement went forward not due to a collective response to any individual’s suffering, but rather their insistence on dignity. And yes, it’s meaningless to get into comparative suffering. Comparative dignity is another thing.
I do see parallels with people wondering why MSOC’s husband didn’t drag her away from the computer at times, and Cindy. Both people have suffered great psychological & emotional events in their lives, but neither should insist on the primacy of their voice, which is what has happened at times in both cases.
louisianagirl moved over to Marie’s diary.
all you can do is laugh.
true. her own attacks on someone else were all A-OK, though!
gotta love ’em, NOT
Kevin
oh please, let s be direct MD.
I made it clear, on several occasions, an ill woman who has paraded her self, her body, her life, her details, her hysteria and her history of suicide as well as other ‘s suicide/attempts and done so across several blogs should have a family that shuts her down for her own good.
Frankly I won’t waste time comparing emsock and CS.
I don’t do comparisons jsut as I don’t elevate people to hero.
A true waste of my time.
My Ukrainian friend just called and she’s okay. Me happy.
marisa – thanks and the 2002 was a typo, knew it was 2003. (I was there the day when in a thread Kos asked Billmon to e-mail him and I knew instantly what Kos wanted.) So, DH was promoted before Kos asked for nominations? I remember RonK (yuck) but not DH maybe I never read his pieces and he didn’t go after me until much later (or maybe he was only one of several Clarkies I sparred with, none of them important enough for me to remember their “names.” Armando clearly remembers sparring with me in the summer of 2003, but I don’t)
MB — maybe I’m more tolerant of him than you are because he’s so much like many I knew long ago. When they were young and I was younger. A bit arrogant and patronizing, frequently very boring, but insufferable.
Once again, I’ve failed with a diary — twitocracy no shows. Mostly the good guys appeared. Jerome, rusty1776 and suicide blonde (don’t know who she is, only noted that she’s been recommending a lot of my comments since I started posting more last week.)
but we’ve both become acquainted to both persons thru blogs, no? (and each other, too) much has been said about how cindy was mistreated on dk. still, like MSOC, she returns to its “biggest game in town” aura.
not sure where I am lacking in being direct.
missdevore – MSOC is an exhibitionist screaming love me. Sheehan just wanted to stop the killing — love for those being put in harm’s way not for her. For MSOC being abused is attention; for Sheehan is exhausting because she wasn’t out there for herself.
“Dr.” Laura Schlessinger’s son was recently in the news when horrific cartoon images from his Myspace page were revealed. This link is to some of the images on the now deleted site. They are more horrific than you can imagine, very, very upsetting.
The soldier must have had a nightmarish childhood, but the thought that men like these are in the military makes my blood run cold. There have been media reports that the myspace page may not have been Deryk Slessinger’s but was created by “the enemy.” I suppose that means he is still in the military.
Marie, I think I am just being realistic in ascribing human qualities to cindy. How do you explain “Good riddance, attention whore”
Sometime back she also posted some “I guess I’m useless to the movement now” diary.
“One of the older groups of dancers danced to this tune, Voodoo by Godsmack, which I’d never heard before. I don’t keep up with all of these new-fangled groups but I did like that song. Plus, it started out with this, so I thought of the VAGs.
I’m not the one who’s so far away
When I feel the snake bite enter my veins
Never did I wanna be here again
And I don’t remember why I came
Candles raise my desire
Why I’m so far away
No more meaning to my life
No more reason to stay
Freezing feeling,
Breathe in, breathe in
I’m coming back again”
Ahh, Voodoo! That brings back good memories. I first heard this in late 1999, and damn it, I couldn’t get it out of my head for months! I was never a big Godsmack fan, but I enjoyed hearing them play this one at the Patriot Center near DC on October 25, 2000. They were touring with Stone Temple Pilots (who I had been trying to see since 1994!) I saw the show about two hours after the interview that landed me the job that I still love.
The only thing that puzzled me about Sheehan was what she was doing shilling for the PDA. But you know what they say: The flaws you detest in others are usually the flaws you detest in yourself.
I would still like to write a reply to Maia, later. But Mcat’s link to Sheehan is in itself a good commentary on where anti-duopolists and non-voters are in this country. “Strangers in our own hometown,” to swipe a line from Percy Mayfield. Our options are immersion and confrontation, as Sheehan tried in good faith to do. Or withdrawal and a sort of voluntary dissidence or voluntary internal exile. Sheehan now knows the peril of the former. Once you have a rep, you will be packaged and sold for peanuts, generally by people that will bleed you dry with no true regard for what your agenda is. They use you. They do not respect you. Too many DP faithful either don’t know the difference, or else they know and don’t care. They want to feel important and in the thick of things, so the illusion of respect and accomplishment is enough for them.
I stand by my opinion that even if Ralph Nader is the biggest asshole U.S. politics can boast, his main crime to the Democratic faithful was that he resisted the packaging, as best he could. And they could not, cannot abide that. Oh, why didn’t he just talk to Gore and drop out bleat the little rabid lambs now just as they did seven years ago. It’s the wrong fucking question, you pathetic morons. The right question is why did Gore feel so entitled to the presidency on a silver platter that he treated Nader like a dog and then wondered why that didn’t work out so well ? Or why Gore’s entitlement and arrogance failed him in Florida, where it might well have done him some good. Just as Gore’s underlings can yet wonder why their abusive attitudes toward “the strangers in our own hometown,” does not bring us back to the party to be re-absorbed.
I wish Sheehan well. I am disappointed in her decision to retreat, but I don’t really blame her for it. Those are the choices we are handed again and again by our alleged allies: Abuse, disenfranchisement, retreat.
The move to open primaries failed again in OR today. A huge number of OR’s voters cannot currently vote in primaries because they are not affiliated with a political party, but Salem refuses to refer the issue to the voters. They are afraid. They hate those who will not be owned, bought and paid for. So they muzzle us.
Get sneered at for voting the wrong way or get sneered at for not voting. That is our function.
Fuck you, DP faithful. You are enemies of freedom, peace and self-determination. You are my enemies. I loathe your chickenshit power games, your repugnant, pandering leaders and your nasty, filthy tricks at the polls. You disgust me.
MD – she’s not a saint – merely a human doing the best she can with the hand dealt to her. Frustration and anger are normal and rational responses to set backs to a goal. So, is throwing back a parting shot when it can no longer be denied that being a punching bag is the limits of your usefulness to the cause. (I liked the title.)
Stranger In My Own Hometown — Percy Mayfield
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Miss Devore..
maybe because I am out here I heard of Cindy by fall of 2004, possibly sooner. I don’t remember the exact point. I did read a good piece that Stan Goff wrote of inauguration day in DC, Jan 20. An ugly bitter cold day. She was there, as was he. Most anti war people were stressed and depressed, which he made clear in his piece.
I did not hang in her diaries at Kos. And I don’t rmemeber when she began posting there. It was clear long ago that would end badly.
I mostly caught her writings at commondreams.
The threads long ago went to trash.
As I said, I don’t compare people.
I won’t comment further on Cindy, at this point. We all have our perspectives that mesh at some points and not others.
At any rate-DHinMi is providing comic relief at dk by standing up to alleged dissing of kosfolk by siraota & palast–even going to the extent of posting a diary. Geekesque trills to his sound.
hate to utter the psychobabble phrase that comes to mind:
Where do we go from here?
I didn’t know the song was that old VAGreen. Thanks. 😉
As for Cindy, I looked back through the diary at dkos after she’d been turfed out of the SOTU for wearing a protest t-shirt (can’t get that to load right now) and a few members criticized her in that “you’re embarassing us” (as if she was theirs) tone that kos used last week when he was scolding kossacks who’d decided to leave the Dem party. They should have been embarassed by their party instead for doing nothing to end the Iraq war.
Cindy still has a tremendous amount of grief to deal with. I imagine it’s overwhelming to lose a child, but to lose a child in this way… I hope she’ll find some peace (as I wrote at my place).
They just mentioned Sheehan’s dkos diary on CNN with the banner saying it was a “liberal” blog. The MSM really needs to buy a clue.
catnip-Jeralyn at TL did a late night Ray Charles thing–is she not imitating you?
She was Woolsey’s guest at the SOTU. And it took a little delving to determine the truth that day.
LOL NOt that it matters.
Kos as “the online Liberal media” works for everyone. Except people who want change and a chance for a fair and equitable nation.
It won’t be changed as an identifier.
It’s like calling the NYT liberal.
Call the waaahmbulance! Greg Palast posts a response to drational’s accusation and all this kop kos can come up with is this??
Oops. Forgot the link to that petty nonsense.
catnip-Jeralyn at TL did a late night Ray Charles thing–is she not imitating you?
lol…I doubt she’s ever heard of lil ole me.
I beg someone there to have a sense of humor and diary “does DhinMI view you with contempt?”
oh don’t worry. link
Everything is in hand. Tut tut.
LOL I am so off the bus.
My local news is about to cover the Sheehan events of the day.
“Kos as “the online Liberal media” works for everyone. Except people who want change and a chance for a fair and equitable nation”
Marisacat,
This is the result of Beltway Conventional Wisdom being recycled over and over again. Kos supports the Democrats. Since the Conventional Wisdom is that the Democrats are dominated by the “extreme left”, and Kos’ name is not Joe Lieberman, Ben Nelson, or Zell Miller, he must be a liberal (and probably an extreme liberal at that).
That’s one of the downsides of living inside the Beltway. You hear so much of this crap. Besides the ever-increasing traffic and sprawl, it’s one of the reasons that I head out to the mountains in Shenandoah National Park about once per month.
well ABC World News has a gathering of Mothers of the Dead… weeping, hugging and then a long long trail of all the right things said to exhort for war. From the gravesides.
[S]he might have chosen to honor her son’s sacrifice in a more meaningful way.
Her entire point would seem to be that her son’s life was thrown away in the most thoughtless, meaningless manner possible. If so, I salute her for having the courage to face the truth that all too few military families are willing to admit. If they did have that courage, this war might be brought to an end.
As for comparing her to Emsock . . . I’m not even going to give reasons why that’s an absurd thing to do. If you think there’s any equivalence there in the first place, you’re incapable of being reasoned with on the subject.
VAGreen
more than inside the beltway, imo. the site happily reinforces it.
Frankly the first thing that tipped me off, the place was nuts was race. Absolute ignorance, over and over, of race and racial issues in America. NOt all but, frankly, most.
It was appalling. That is when I began to use ‘Liberal SUgar’. They need the infusions. TO stay happy.
I defended “liberal” for almost 30 years, but at Kos, watching as they slobbered over it, I stopped.
LOL I got the point. Slobber liberals maybe. Not even bleeding heart liberals.
Some of the oddest most out of it threads at Kos were when FPers or someone trusted would start a diary, what does the DP mean to you.
Lordy. In a big big bubble.
Or what does “Liberal” mean to you. Wilson would have been ahppy iwth most threads.
Geg Palast hurt their feelings:
DH commenting on someone else’s arrogance. Stop me before I burst out in a fit of unending laughter.
well-I don’t think my disagreements have been flippant, so it is disappointing to hear I am “incapable of being reasoned with.”
but anyway:
“Good Riddance Attention Whore”
by: Maryscott O’Connor
Mon May 28, 2007 at 16:36:26 PM PDT
my point wasn’t to take away from it, but to point out that there was a well-established and long-running movement to provide her backup and support, and an understanding in that movement that the ENTIRE political establishment was the enemy, and that pressure had to be built to force one side or the other to work with them to save themselves.
they shut down the diaries over there.
liberal my ass.
wow, check out the difference in the threads from Cindy’s xpost at After Downing Street.
we’re under such a lockdown
Madman said what I wanted to say in about 1/50th of the time. He gets the macaroons this week.
Last year, a lot of posters on Indymedia were complaining that Sheehan was tainting The Cause because her son was part of the military. Too bad I hadn’t seen Sir No Sir at the time or I could have defended her better. She is not perfect, and she made a lot of people unhappy for a lot of reasons. But I have no doubt that her grief is sincere, and I hope she will be back on the scene at some point.
And she is right to call the DP an enemy. It is. I have resigned myself to not discussing this at all with people who can’t understand, after all we’ve seen and all the times we’ve been shafted. Or claim they can’t understand. I don’t care if they’re bloggers, my own Mom, my own spouse. I am sick of the pretenses and the lies people gulp down in order to remain perched precariously where they are. I cannot stomach this anymore. I won’t have it.
Apparently Sheehan will not, either. She deserves praise for that, at least.
Oh, and I liked catnip’s comments. Zombies indeed. No matter how many brains they eat they never seem to get any smarter.
[Waves at VA Green]
My comment was deleted or hidden before the shutdown.
I repostedit for further TU intervention, it was ignorantly it was simple, but still too dangerous for them. It was something simplistic like:
The number of hits trend is falling at DK, they must be under some stress, their panic is showing.
CNNMoney: Memorial Day sales key to retail revival
goddes!! is there ANYthing, that maryscott cannot make all about HER HER HER?!?
I think, imnsfho, the answer is NO.
color me black.
Interesting article in the Globe & Mail, Burying the Unborn. The only such funeral I ever attended like that was when my niece miscarried at 5 months into her pregnancy – graveside service with the cremated remains.
I had a miscarriage when I was young but never would have thought to have a service – well, the fact that I hadn’t even known I was pregnant at the time made a difference too. There wasn’t any kind of attachment. Still, it is kind of a bizarre trend. I understand the need for grieving but, as the article points out, you need to define when there is a “life”, a “human being” to grieve for. Without any sort of law about that here, I suppose it’s whenever you choose to see it that way in this instance.
I don’t know. Tough issue.
Why hasn’t Kos banned Palast? Seems Palast has crossed waaay over the line of the allowable, acceptable DK speech.
Well, when you have LV stating that antiwar.com isn’t a “reliable source”, you know how badly they’ve isolated themselves over there and bought their own bullshit Dem party propaganda.
The naysayers in that Palast thread are just whiners. Why does Palast owe them all of the evidence he has when this is currently under investigation?
Maybe they’ll ban the BBC as a source over there too since Palast worked in conjunction with them.
Just let three out of Moderation:
Madman
Lib Cat
and
brinn
sorry for the delay. I am on dial up and after about 12 hours the connection just wears out. Shut down and re boooted…
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(cat courtesy of ms xeno)
According to the Bardo Thodol, commonly referred to as The Tibetan Book of the Dead the reincarnated spirit enters the body at birth, not conception, iirc. I understand not everyone subscribes to such notions.
I am on dial up and after about 12 hours the connection just wears out. Shut down and re boooted…
I don’t know if you use Firefox as well, but I found out that the longer you leave it open the more system resources it sucks up. So, it helps to shut it down and restart it now and then as well.
I was on dialup for years when I lived in the country because it was the only option. Annoying at times, but DSL is so bloody expensive where it’s available. You can’t win.
Lord Goldsmith, Britain’s Alberto Gonzales:
Criminal bastards.
Seems there were elections in Spain today for ‘majorships’:
I am too dense currently to grasp the details but judging by thread comments seems to be a standoff between left and right. Maybe one of the more astute can analyze further.
wow, what the hell happened? I always miss the exciting stuff. DKos is offline. Were they crashed by a megaswarm from all the folks watching CNN?
Not having read any of the diaries discussed, I have only a sketchy idea of what’s going on, but I’m in Cindy Sheehan’s corner whatever she does. She’s an intelligent person and a very good writer who speaks the uncomfortable truths. More power to her.
I also give her credit for being so restrained in her public protests and statements. If I had lost my son in this war, I’d be doing something a whole lot more violent.
Cindy Sheehan: Why I Am Leaving the Democratic Party:
She continues:
The anger at dkos following last week’s vote seems to have calmed down considerably with the masses slowly being driven to take it out on the Republicans and Bush again. The reality of the Democrats’ complicity is just too hard to face, I suppose.
Were they crashed by a megaswarm from all the folks watching CNN?
Sheehan’s dkos diary was also mentioned in a Guardian article. I hate the fact that kos is making money off of these hits from people who want to read what she wrote. OTOH though, she delivered a righteous smackdown of the Dem party on a site that reveres it and can’t stand any criticism of the status quo.
Clearly influenced by the Xeno School, I offer
White Scottish Terrier with 4 Que Tips.
From all that “Am I hearing this right????”
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( & )
I’ve just visited DK for the first time in a good long while. I am SO PLEASED to see DH’s (who will hopefully soon be returning to MI) latest efforts in humiliation and marginalization of intelligent and decent people with projection so obvious it makes me weep with laughter. I think June is going to be the month that many, many people discover just who Dana and friends really are and what he and they have been up to.
I hate the fact that kos is making money off of these hits from people who want to read what she wrote.
It’s a good day for that to happen and I’m sure Martin will attest to the fact that once you alienate and bully for a brief upsurge in hits the payback’s a bitch. It does not sound as if Sheehan, Palast or Sirota will be posting there much anymore.
Perhaps DemfromCT will write another post about the Bird Flu.
Rafters weighs in with another DK critique on mlw:
who was the one who actually said “Good riddance attention whore”? I didn’t read the comments to her last diary.
I think she took a phrase from a comment somehwere in response to her piece posted after the vote… that is the piece catnip has above.
I think it is just appearing today at Counterpunch but was at the blogs last week…
I don’t think she said where the quote ws posted.
“Rafters” = yawnage.
I just read through DH’s recent comments. They were about Palast. Did he say anything about Sheehan?
Pretty funny that he’s so bent out of shape about Palast and his defenders that he spends all this time commenting online about it. Come now, Dana, is there nothing more pressing in your job working for Hodes in glamorous DC? When are you coming to northern NH? You must let me know so I can meet you in person.
Perhaps DemfromCT will write another post about the Bird Flu.
What does that have to do with getting Dems elected, btw? Never did figure that one out…
New Thread
LINK
hmmm I just made it thru the piggy backed post at MLW.
The thread is pathetic. Seems most missed the point of the post at Dkos. What with “hang up your blogging hat”.
having met cindy sheehan not long after casey died, at a small peace rally in davis, i have a hard time seeing her as anything other than a person not unlike myself, but who got caught personally in the gears of our cruel reality, and has tried to do something about it as best as she could.
i have no doubt that all sorts of people tried to help and steer her towards their agendas and causes, and suspect that she got spome ghostwriting help at times, but ultimately i find the whole discussion of her, both online and in the traditional media, to have utterly missed the rather simple and crushing point: that her son was dead, ad that she was trying to do waht she could to prevent the same from happening to other sons and daughters.
too much of the online churn forgets that these are human beings we’re dealing with.
too much of the online churn forgets that these are human beings we’re dealing with.
Absolutely. The cruelty foisted upon her was horrendous.
wu ming: I thought Cindy was a writer before all this happened? Why did you think she had a ghostwriter?
The whole thing about Sheehan being “manipulated” reminds me strongly of the recent Supreme Court decision: women are so impressionable and infantile and must be protected. By men, of course, who are not nearly as lame.
Pisses me off.
I think she avoided manipulation.
The Democratic party and entities within it wanted to control her… imo. I never saw that she accepted that, at all.
I am sure they flipped their collective lids when she went to Venezuela, among other things.
The government killed her son. She worked her way thru the ensuing horror as best she could.
Early on, everyone wanted her to be this or that. The most frequent complaint, in one form or another, was that she was not good enough to be the ‘face of the anti war … well, you can’t call it a movement! Not good enough. What bullshit.
It was only ever going to be what it was.
Love how the blogs chew their cud and talk about how the hard right is collapsing.
Or spread their legs.
BTW,
my local ABC news just reported that CS is in Crawford, for what would have been her son’s 28th birthday.
svix – the only reason i mentioned it is that i noticed that her writing voice varied dramatically at times. granted, it is a far different thing to post a comment off the top of one’s head and to carefully compose a diary (e.g. armando), and i could very well be totally off base here. i’m not claiming any special info, just my own observations.
at any rate, i think the world of her, and have a great deal of respect for her doing what she did. i cannot imagine going through the loss of a child like that, and then having to put up with all the rediculous personal attacks, online and off. she is a very “real” person in a world of plastic celebrity.
marisa – the whole line about “the face of the antiwar movement/the left/blogs/etc.” is so utterly laughable. as if there can only ever be one face, that somehow stands in for everyone else just sitting back and watching and clapping from the sidelines, and excuses them for it.
#77 How incredibly strange to say such a thing.
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